You Never Know

Why ?

2010-02-04T16:39:00.002+05:30

We are citizens of India and India is a democratic country, where we all have six fundamental rights recognized by our constitution

1. The right to equality

2. The right to freedom

3. The right to freedom from exploitation

4. The right to freedom of religion

5. Cultural and educational rights

6. The right to constitutional remedies

Right to freedom say.. Freedom of speech and expression, which enable an individual to participate in any public activities but reasonable restrictions can be imposed in the interest of public order, security of State, decency or morality.

But unfortunately actually we don’t have this right.

I can prove this.

See if you are younger to someone….you cannot argue with them, no matter you are right because it is not a right thing to speak in front of your Elders n Seniors…You know they are wrong but still you have to obey them because this is our so called Bharitya Sanskriti…. Basic etiquettes, et al.

You know your teacher is wrong…It could be due to lack of knowledge or she/he is not aware of latest development..But still if you try to put your point forward they will ask you to leave the room or they will punish you..... Especially in Management colleges if you are arguing with your professor they will give you assignment for that……….hehehe…. (Exceptions are always there…….)

Now about parents, they will unnecessarily sometime ask you to do something which is completely wrong, in fact they will compel you….. and you have to do that, if you say no so you are not Good Child….. Apparently they will give you a Lamba Chauda Bhashan..that how many sacrifices they have done for us n all… ( I m not offensive towards anybodies parents… just sharing my view)

Latest, whatever happened with IPL, Shahrukh and Aamir, they have given only their views..again the so called Marathis Manoos MNS and Bal Thackrey people are creating lot of fuss against them….

I actually loved the statement of Rahul Gandhi…..

I am sure we are not far away from that day when India will be divided in to pieces…..

Poor …. Very poor…. Why the hell we have all these rights when nobody is following….

Bas Aiwey hiiii

2010-01-04T11:26:00.002+05:30

Sometime.... I m forced to think... Why people are only crazy about getting

married. It is the only thing you can do in your life...

I don't understand.

According to me..there are 4 types of people in our society.

1. those only wanted to earn... n then get married ..hv children n all.

2. those who first wanted to establish themselves.. achieve...n after that Shaadi waddi n all

3. those who are ambitious... they dont believe in only getting married...they think beyond that.. they have so many aspiration n off course they are desperate to achieve all that...

4. those who never plans for anything.. whether it is career, job, marriage, love... et al..
they take eveything as it come..they dont believe in planning...

Now question is why everybody forces you to marry someone u dont know.. n marry ... no matter what u think ... but they would like to see u married.... so u have to marry...

The worst part is... if somebody dont wanted get married... they will categorize you in Lesbians/Gays categories...no matter they are super normal...

I m hating all this..

arey yaar,.. chill maaro... apni life sambhalo...why u wanted to interfere in others life...

who r u to tell somebody whether she/he is normal or not....

What do you say...

New Beginning !!

2010-01-01T14:56:00.010+05:30

With the commencement of this year, I have promised myself to begin everything with a scratch. I don’t know why I have stopped writing blogs and reading other blogs as well. I think I was not in condition at that time to read and write. I was flowing in my own world.

So from now no rona and dhona…. I m gona write…I will read n I will smile…yes I will do all that things which I would love to, and which other wants me to do..

Everybody was asking me why you are not writing and I also use to think the same.

Harshita, Priya… you know them naaa… I knw u knw them they use to ask the same question…..

Anyways… Forget jiii…. Naya saal nayi baatein…...Wahi baatein jo aap sab logo se karni hai…

I wish you a Blissful, colorful, beautiful.....and prosperousful.... (I knw I knw its not right word but mainey soch ki jab sab kuch ful hai toh yeh kyu nahi.. …. Hehehe… :D).....New Year

May God Bless You all

Happy New Year 2010…. :)

Don't Trust

2009-10-23T10:22:00.000+05:30

Life is full of surprises. To whom you trust, he/she will never be your trustworthy. To whom you call your friend, you never knw…. that they are your enemy.

I was so astonished yesterday to know, about something which had shocked me. There is a girl in my office who use to call me her best friend. Waisey… I have never segregated my friends with words like best, good, fast, etc. But she use to……and I had cleared this thing many time..but after sometime I have started ignoring this…because it was clear from my end…..anyways…she was in love with guy and her parents were not happy with her choice…so off course…she use to hide things from her parents and all.

She use to ask me what should I do, I have explained her many times that it is better you should either convince your parents for him or leave him.

But she never agreed on that….I use to help her by completing her work so that she can go see her boyfriend, things kept moving like this for an year….one day she came to me and told me she had decided they are getting married, again I have tried to explain but she dint agreed…. Anyways.. I have helped her to get married with him without knowing her family…but I dint attended her wedding. Infact I have arranged everything at temple and in office too….

After doing all this I have never expected anything but yes I expect that there should respect she should have for me.

But no it was not like that..she had some problem with other girl in the office..and whatever she use to tell me about her…she said everything to her by taking my name…..n naturally..we all know girls are best players in manipulating the facts and words…

The best part is the other girl called me up and she had said everything to me in front of her..n obviously I denied ….Jab mainey kuch bola hi nahi toh… how can I accept all that….
After all this scene the Girl who use to call me friend, wrote an email to other girl and said, yes I did it. I do bitching and I will do and I am not afraid of anybody in this world.
Jo karna hai karlo…

I am not getting why she had done all this… aur kya mila use yeh sab karke….i m so disturbed from yesterday… I think we should not trust anybody in this world.

Kaisey kaisey log hai yaha…

Life IV

2009-10-12T16:12:00.001+05:30

Sometime in your life….you get lost….where, that even you don’t know….thats what happened with me….i was in my own world…n dint know that it being almost two month that I have not written a single post….I regret for the same…..

But yes the most important thing is I hv seen the most difficult time of my life….
Don’t know what else is left to see….. I am extremely sorry for my non availability on blogger……

I respect and wanna say thanks to Priya, Sam, Harshita and Nidhi.

Life III

2009-08-14T19:14:00.008+05:30

I was passing through an Jain temple, I read

" If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment."

" The reason God created time was, so that there would be a place to inhume the your failures of the past."

As it was in hindi....so I have translated into english,

Happy Janamastami to all of you....

Jai Shree Krishna..... Radhey Radhey.....

Happy Independence Day!!

Life II

2009-08-04T12:13:00.002+05:30

Difficult times have helped me to understand better than before,

how infinitely rich and beautiful life is in every way,

and that so many things that we goes worrying about are of no importance whatsoever....

Hello to all..

2009-07-26T19:37:00.002+05:30

yep..u r right...perhaps...I m back...back with bang...tht I dont know..but yes I m back...how can I...forget u guys...nope...never.....

so for all of you... a peice of information is..from god s grace n ur all wishes... Mom is recovering..infact almost recovered...now she is doing exercises...sort of...actually... it is a physiotherapy....isnt tht great!!! ...yes i knw its..great.....

n.....

u remember I have to join some other organisation..the latest is actually they have ditched me...yes..u r reading absolutely right.....they have ditched me..now they r not giving me the joining date..why..its better if u should ask them...abhi they are saying it will take time..n all.....n nw I am jobless....as I have already resigned form my previous organisation...isn't this sounds intersting.....anyways....

I dont know why he is after my life...I mean... bhagwan...na jaaney kyu mere hi peechey padey rehtey hai...off course..he cant see me happy..anyhow...bahut bola bhagwan ke baarey me ..muje maaj kardo bhagwan jee.....now...again its a hardtime.....I knw...but koi nahii...dekh lengey..yaar.......

kabhi to unko bhi humarey upar taras aayega........I mean God ko

so guys..I am so sorry... as I was unable to check ur post..but I promise...by god....ab to saare ke saare...check karta rahunga.....try karney me kya harj hai jeee... :)

n yes...it is obvious..I missed u a lllllllloooooot.....donno aap logo ne kiya ki nahi...but yes...I missed u guys.....

so tk cr..u alll......

hv fun.. Shun with thodi si Rum..but dont use Gum while having Rum...i m sure it will remove ur all gum( this time it is problems ) n keep smiling...

aur haanjiiii ek aur request..to aisa hai Sirjee's n Madam jeee's.....hehehe....

now i m searching a new job so dont mind haan.....if I miss ur any post..vaise sach kehta hoon...jhoot bolne ke aadat nahi hai.....post aap sabki check karta rahunga..n comment bhi karta rahunga jeee.....

Pallav

Awards..ki Potli...only for 'YOU'

2009-06-20T14:16:00.023+05:30

So after receiveing so many awrds i think this now my turn to give awards to others.

This award is specially for Harshita, who has introduced me to blogspehere. Thanks Harshita.

This is for Harshita, Mayank, Creativity, Priya, Mohita, Yamini, Mad, Sneha, Arnab, Isha, Mahesh, Pink Orchid, Pnkzz, Enchantinganki, Sam, Raka, Richa, Swetha, Diya, Peter, Akansha, Rabbit, Pretty Me, Vysu, Gauri, Dhanya, Kunjal, Sahityika, Kartik, LGL-Little Girl Lost, Nidzzi, Chronicwriter, Cursed- Juhi, Suyog.

This is for Mayank, Raka, Harshita,Peter, Arnab, Sneha and Priya.

This Award is for those, who have special purpose of blogging

Arnab, Isha & Pinkzz - Fiction

Harshita, Pink Orchid & Sam - Life

Mayank & Mahesh - Love

Yamini, Karthik & Creativity - Poem

Peter & Mads - Humor

This is for Specially Sneha, Harshita, Priya and Mayank, i dont think so they have missed my any post.

This is for Mad, Sneha, Mayank, Sam, Arnab, Isha, Priya, Raka, Mohita, Harshita, Pink Orchid, Juhi, Nidzzi.

This is for all of you.

This is again for all of you.. thanks for being my friend.

Please accept theses awards, its just another way to show my gratitude towards u.

Life

2009-06-17T16:21:00.005+05:30

Life is a process. We are a process. The universe is a process. You know moving on in your life is important. In my past few years I think I hv seen every face of life. How difficult for anyone to come out from all that I think I better know this. People have used me like anything and then after usage they have kicked me like a football. Yes it’s true... I have been victimized and traumatized by many… many of my so called good friends.

Though I think Why? Why this happened to me but as always I don’t have answer. But I think god has given me enough strength to face all that and then move on…. Nicely. Although it was tough but yes...not difficult. Every incidence has taught me something n I think I m more mature patient, practical et al.

There is one guy in my office that belongs to an uneducated family. They have some different culture, he was bit rude towards his family because of all that and I tried to explain him. I told him it is not possible whatever you wish you will get, there are some wishes which cannot be fulfilled and we have to accept that. You cannot change your parents at this age. You cannot choose your family; I think it is better rather than analyzing, cribbing and plagiarizing we should respect them for the things which they have done for us.

After one month he came to me and told me that his family is happy, they are observing some changes and he told me that is all possible because of you. I was happy that I have done at least something for him.

Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child and the smiling faces. Smell the rain and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential and fight for your dreams

Today I feel I m living my life, if I m doing something for somebody…

Ending this post with positive note and would like to tell you that I have resigned from my present job n will be joining some other organization. Though it was a difficult decision but I took it….. I think it was god who had helped me to decide and he had given me several indications and I just followed because when all doors were locked and I was in middle of way, he helped me and showed me the way..So I would like to thank god by this post.

Watt lag gyi hai bhai...oopss....doston...

2009-06-10T10:12:00.002+05:30

So I m starting my post with sad note..God ne aaj kal meri watt laga rakhi hai yaaron…..a week before last week my mom fell n her right shoulder is fractured….she is diabetic so she will take more time to recover around 2 months…..my Badi mom I mean my Tayji came to see her n be with us so that she can facilitate n serve her…but unfortunately she got septic in her right hand so she also got operated the next day…so aaj kal.. I m looking after two patient..if somebody comes to see them we usually crack joke tht we have combo offer..ek patient ke sath dusra free free free…..jaldi kijiyey offer period is limited….hehehhe

Anyways... I took a week off from my office and was with them so that they don’t face any problem...Thanks to my Mama n Mami who were looking them... n I dnt have words to express my gratitude towards them..Still they manage to send one time meal for us……

So nowadays I m living pure grahesth jeevan….subah subah uthke ke paani bharoo..fir…Breakfast ki tyari karo …fir afternoon ke liye sabzi banoa..Dusting karke… sara ghar.. u knw manage karke… I leave for office n after office ghar pohuchke u knw… raat ke dinner ki tyari ..Then paying bills for all like cable…sweeper….Maid…..Newspaper……n all.

N yes I hv to keep an eye on everything…… kya khatam ho gya hai..kya leke aanna hai market se lana hai…..ufffff…its too hard… Bhagwan ji kam se kam ek break to banta hai ji…..

Bhagwan ka kehar……Maid is on leaves from last 3 days…..n I m searching n calling all aunties to send their maids at our house from my office……..

Upar se yeh sadu boss … I feel like I should throw him from fifth floor... u know he is cutting my salary for the leaves because as per him I can’t take off until n unless I will not complete 1 year n 9month with this company… I hv completed one year… n how terrible it was..Only god knows n I know…..

PS: I have missed so many post of my friends, would like to apologise for the same....hope you can understand, I dont get time... :(

Elcericity.... Shock...

2009-06-05T13:33:00.003+05:30

Hello to all n sorry to all…heheheh...why because I was away n I hv missed ur post…hope u all r fine n doing well…..

Ok now you won’t believe after reading this post. One of my friend getting married there is nothing strange about it except this that he is not employed and he told his family that he is employed and he is living his life from our money from last 7 months…nonetheless the worst part is he is getting married … I mean how can he… he is not employed….

Anyways…. the most astonishing thing which he told me is that in his village which is near to Patna, they don’t have Electricity...From past 40years.. Earlier they have but it use to come for only 3 hrs in whole 24 hrs...Then slowly slowly people started thieving the Electricity wires and the poles because of poorness and now they don’t even have any wires or poles for electricity..

I was wondering how they people are living without electricity…..we are so much dependent on that...we are helpless without it…….

So guys I m back…. will be reading ur all post….meanwhile I must inform you that I hv received two awards from Mads...so thanks a ton Mad..

Pallav

Thanks...

2009-05-20T12:16:00.020+05:30

Hi….

It seems…all of sudden Bhagwan mujse kuch khush ho gye hai….. u knw I m getting awards…

I got 4 awards last week from Pink Orchid... I hv no words to express my gratitude

1 from Juhi..Sweety Thank You

1 from Creativity... You are best.. full of Creativity.... Thank You

Recently I got from Sam....Thanks a Zillion...sometime I too wonder about my writing on Relationships... By the Way...Dude you rock

This post is only for them, I am really thankful to you guys from bottom of my heart.. I m touched with your warm words and your gesture. You have motivated me to write more…..
I m fortunate enough to have friends like you…. Infact I would like to thank everybody who spent their precious time on my blogs….

I love you all.....

Pallav :)

Love..only Love

2009-05-13T15:30:00.017+05:30

Love is not permanent, it is a irregular craziness. It blossom like an flower and then sinks. And when it subsides you have to decide, what to do

You have to check and assure whether your roots have become so laced together or not and that it is unimaginable and put of question that you should ever part.

Because this is what love is.

Love is not shortness of breath, it is not turmoil and upheaval, it is not the annunciation and declaration of promises and anticipation of everlasting warmth and affection. It is a commitment between two souls.

I think… I m .. I m… yes I m…..

you are guessing right… yes I am in……. I am …

Not in love…….

This is specially dedicated for all my friends who are in love. You know it is really....

a beautiful feeling.. n I m dying to fall in love….. hope it will happen soon….

Is everyone around us SELFISH??

2009-05-08T12:02:00.006+05:30

I don’t find any answer whenever I think of this.

Yesterday, I got a call from my past chapter.…one of my so called Good Friend, friend 12 year old, has actually back stabbed me. Because his purpose was solved and kicked me out...

Yes, this was a shock for me as I never thought of ths..but I think this is all life. His sister called me up for her own purpose and asked me for help. I was thinking after 2 year she called me for this, did she think once before calling me, she took my number by calling my college professor and then contacted me.

As a stupid moron I helped her…. People are calling me idiot for this.

Yes, I m an idiot, if I think abt others, if I m emotional…. Yes I m idiot..I cannot be rude n selfish….I don’t want to become like them…I m feeling sad...It always happens with me whenever I try to forget everything.. I always face that thing again n again… u knw it sucks.. it gives me pain… I too have heart…n I m feeling lonely....

Shaadi..bas hone wali thi meri barbaadi....

2009-05-05T10:27:00.010+05:30

This post is going to be hat trick for me, bcz ths is also going to be on wedding.

Ok so I start from here, our one of the good friend was getting married, it becomes mandatory for us to attend, notwithstanding anything. We five common friends went Kanpur to attend his marriage. It was not basically proper Kanpur, I don’t remember the name of the Village, which comes under tht district.

We all attained on the wedding-day, n decided to take two rooms in a hotel. There were no hotels in tht particular area, so forget tht u ll get some good hotel. We took room in one hotel named TOP HILL…nw I asked my friend, there is no hill in ths area, then why they have kept ths name.. I dint get…

He said: tujey ball ki khaal naikalne me zada maja aata hai…

I said: ok… I wish ths hotel shld be appropriate for us.

We walked towards reception and asked the Reception Guy (RG) “ We need two rooms”

RG : we have ample of rooms, why two… take five…

I said: ohh..so u mean u have 2… ke sath… 3 free waali scheme… n we all laughed...

RG: no..it is not like that, but we have very economical rooms…

I said: ok you give 3

RG: evinced and inquire abt the purpose of visit n all…after completing all formalities, he asked us… Sir We have Gubbarey facility too, if u don’t have we can give you….

I said: R u Nut or what?..itni dur se kya hum gubaarey fullane aaye hai…. (Actually he was talking about C****M, I dint knew)

RG: arey Sir.. fullane ko kaun keh raha hai… after tht my other friend started smiling n he said no.. no..Dont worry buddy we have….

RG: Sir…we have facility of Thanda Paani also…. with smile… n charges r very nominal… (he mean Call Girl)

I said: r u crazy…in this winter, where people r dying with cold, u wana gives us thanda paani….

My friend: ok kitna ?....

RG: Sir 150 – 700 tak….

I said: Kya tum usme Juice bhar ke dogey… jo itna charge kar rhe…

MY friend to me..Shut up Man… Acha to kitne baje bhijwa dogey..

I said: r u mad… thanda paani… I m not going to take bath with that….. n I think none of us will take bath..ur mom will kill me, if u have asthma attack, she told me to keep an eye on u….so u Shut up.. n just take bath with warm water… r u listening me….

All of them were smiling n said ok boss……

My friend: Acha to ek bhijwa dena…

RG: arey ek se hi kaam chal jayega… acha acha.. baari baari … haan.. but sir uske extra charges lagenge..

RG: Sir Gubarrey aur thanda paani sab kuch… aapko…. Ek daam…500 me mil jayega badiya se garm pani….

I said… listen… we r not here to blow ur gubbareys…..n to have bath with ur cold water… n jst.. Hush up.. n show me the way for the rooms…then we all walked out from reception n entered in our room…I was observing, while waliking he was speaking to my friend ..they were smiling n signaling each other….

My other friend came after an hour and told me tht Vivek, my frined, is planning abt some thanda paani with tht guy.. n was abt to pay but he stopped him…he also told me tht RG comes after every 30min and ask for thanda paani…

So I was totally unknown with the scene… n I screamed n abused him n asked him to get ready bcz now we have to leave for the wedding venue….

Now Wedding venue was weirder… there r people who r serving BIDI’s and Cigarettes in tray…people r sitting on grounds instead of chairs… Children r playing with the tent……people r shouting for BARF (Ice cream..ths is wht they call it)…..Ladies were in there ghongat till their toes…..most of the men’s were in White Kurta and payjama…with Rubber sleepers… n the Village Guys… I mean the dudes… were in Suits with Sporst shoes……

I cud not control myself and was jst laughing like mad’s n my friends were controlling me… due to fear of….any troube….. all people there were gazing us …..

They explained me all that crap wen we all were returning to delhi.. that wht RG meant..I was laughing…..

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I got an award from Juhi….I would like to specially thank her for the same…

Thank u all for reading my blogs… n motivating me to write more n more…

Special thanks for Harshita….Arnab…Kartzz….Creativity….Isha……Juhi….Yamini….Mahesh, dude I cannot forget u….Mayank, u always rock……Sneha……n all th readers who r reading… please don’t mind if I forgot to mention anybody name… just remember u all have special place in my heart….

Wedding...Clothes shedding...

2009-04-29T11:40:00.007+05:30

Have you ever attended any Punjabi wedding???

Nopes…then you should, we all bunch of friends went to attend our friend sister marriage. It is actually one of my Friends- Girlfriend Sister and he had forced me to come, though I don’t want, but I have to accompany him.

So our train was late, we forget to carry Card for address; his GF was not answering his calls . Anyhow I called m y mother n asked the address and finally we reached.

Scene 1 : Her sister who was getting married has received us and took us in one the room where all ladies were in their Demake up stage ( I mean half nude…n they are coming in their original devil looks by removing their all make up), they have attended some other ceremony at Grooms Place.

Scene 2: Her Mom asked Beta Khana Chalega ( arey aunty duaedga…. Bhaiya subah se bhookey hai ).

My friend replied, no aunty we would like to have only water, khana humne khaa liya…

I agitated n said Aunty we won’t mind, with killer look on my face I just banged his leg. At last we had food n all other Aunties ….I don’t know why they all are staring us with their weird looks. Anyways I ignored n had food n we all went for market to buy gift for bride.

Scene 3: All of them were getting ready and my friend GF, she came n took us in to another room n asked us abt everything n then all aunties abruptly came, n started asking me lot of questions abt my family n studies.. Started introducing their daughters and granddaughters, who are almost of our age. We just formally met n left the room, now they have told their daughters to follow us and be with us.. first I thought it was a general way of facilitating somebody, but later I realized they have some other plans. As they were telling their daughters, how to dress, how to flaunt ur body and how to impress the guys……

Eh delhi de mudey ne.. enhnooo sab kuch karke vikhaoo…

I was only speaking in English with my friend bcz of them and one of the aunty said…

Aee ki ghit pit English bol de paye ho puttar ji…thodi hindi aur punjabi bhi bola karo…saadi Kannu MA in hindi hai … te bhajan bade soney gaandi hai … suna kaanu… oh Shyma ji walla….

I said no no … aunty I know how to speak hindi ..woh hume aadat padi hui hai….

Another Aunty: Beta yeh diamond ke topas pehne hai aapne…..I said yes aunty this is Diamond Studs…

She said: oh hoo.... ek ho hi gal hai beta… humne apni Meenu ke liye Diamond ke Set bavayey hai.. ab shaadi ki umar ho gyi hai naa…

Vekho aapke sath match karti hai na….

I said what??? I just ran.

Scene 4: Barat was abt to come n here my friend and his Girl Friend, they were smooching and I was shouting-ki koi dekh lega yarr… juteey padegeyy… but they….. no comments….. After all ceremony, we all wanna change our clothes, there was nobody at home, suddenly my friend GF came n took my friend to upstairs…her cousin who was looking for her came asked me abt their whereabt I said I simply signaled and she smiled….

Her Brother came to us ( I must tell you, he has his milk dairy and sweet shop.. pura ka pura Pehlwaan type....now u can understand why I was so scared ) , inquired abt our friend, how he is n all....

We just smiled... answered his questions….

At the time of Doli... i mean Bidaai... everybody was crying, here my friend and his GF…..

People were looking for them..As it was a last ceremony n it is important for her to be there.. I think i need not to tell you where she was ...

we all were rushing to catch our train bcz i just wanna ran awy from tht place, train departure time was 3:50 am n our Friend he was missing.. We decided to board without him bcz he was quite happy n wants to come next day....

Finally he came n we all gazed him.. he said: what…Man…. I forgot the way for station....that is why i am late....dont think anything else.... haaan

PS: Somebody would like to suggest any other title for the post… ??.

Marriage...is a Carriage....

2009-04-20T10:06:00.003+05:30

Marriage this word brings smiles and fear on everyone face, Smile because they will have partner now for their life, Fear - how can a guy n gal manage their life, it’s difficult for both of them, but I think Girls confronts more trouble. She has to leave her family and entrust with someone else who is completely unknown to her. Adjust and cooperate with new folks, treat them as an own family, its difficult.

Anyways I m not gonna write about all this.

My friend Aman, 27 year old, he is engineer and MBA, working with a multinational company, nowadays he is facing similar problem, he is been working since 1 year and his father is after his life for marriage. He doesn’t want to settle as he wanna constitute himself at a estimable position before marriage. According to him every girl has many expectations and wishes, and he want to live up to all and to meet all that, which needs money. He says he cannot meet his own expenses with his salary, how can he afford his wife necessities and blah blah blah….

Now the problem is his father is getting desperate, as he thinks it is a right age after that he will find problem in finding right girl for his son, moreover his all friends children are either married or getting married and everybody ask him for his son marriage, which annoys him, he thinks people will intend there would be some wrong with his son, that is why he is not getting married ( I tell you he thinks people will assume his son is Gay hehehhe…. )

Whenever there is any wedding invitation from their Friends and relatives, he panics a lot, they have ‘Sayyapa’ at their home. He says all his friends children are getting married….woh sab first aa gye ek hum hi hai jo fisaadi reh gye….hehehhe….

Height of desperation is when he was having his meal his father asked him to be on diet as he is putting on weight and he don’t want any girl rejects him. He advises him to have Sugarcane Vinegar which will help him to reduce his fat and weight..hhehhe…..

He had enroilled Aman into a gym and forces him daily to go and built some muscles … I mean body shody…..

Poor chap…. I have explained him many time.. Uncle..Don’t worry give him a year’s time he will be ready but….His father he says beta... This is right age otherwise we have very limited choice and you know…. Chere pe bhi umar dikhti hai…….. Kaun Uncle se Shaadi karega…hehehhe…. And there are lot of biological issues….

Now wherever he goes he ask people to suggest a bride for his son…..

I understand his father concern too..he is right at his part but you know Aman is too right..I mean he is not ready for marriage, atleast his father should give him sometime….

On ending note would like to inform you my exams are finished..my Sadu boss is getting more sadu day by day….he wants me to now be in office till 8:30pm with no work because I left office early seven days due to exams, so he wants compensation for that…

100 TRUTHS + Patience Test----Ab Jhelo Yeh Sab !!!

2009-04-13T10:30:00.005+05:30

Would like to appreciate the concern of the mentor of this Tag…. Kinaa Wada Wela aadmi hai woh…Baba…
and positve part is he/she helping us to know eachother better....hehehhe...
Ab Likh diya mainey yeh sab ab Jhelo mere Doston… My sincere ..sympathies r with u..hehehhe…. :)

1. Last drink: Tea (Woh bi office ki) hehhehe….
2. Last phone call :Vishal ( My friend)
3. Last text message: Guru Maa(She is my friend n we all call her Guru Maa, bcz she is chalti Firti logo ke kaam aane wali dukan n Daya ki devi…….
4. Last song you listened to: Kuch khaas hai –Fashion, I love this song – bada hi mast hai…..
5. Last time you cried: 6 month back
6. Dated someone twice: No
7.Been cheated on? donno
9. Lost someone special? Yeah :(
10. Been depressed? Completely !!
11. Been drunk and threw up? Nopes
LIST FOUR FAVORITE COLORS:
12. Black
13. White
14. Red
15. Blue
FIRSTS :
16. Made new friends: Yup
17. Fallen out of love: arrreyy…. I don’t want pit hole on roads…..
18. Laughed until you cried: Yesterday.. my Badimom is at my place n she jokes a lot :D
19. Met someone who changed you: Yes but all the changes arepositive
20. Found out who your true friends were: no
21. Found out someone was talking about you: Many times…..!
HAVE YOU:
22. Kissed anyone on your friend's list: Nopes
23. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life: around 368 ….. hhehehehhe… I m talking abt orkut frnd list
24. How many kids do you want to have: Two, I love kids. I don’t mind having 4 -5, Changa lagda hai Ghar chey enne saarey bachhey jaado khel de na…
25. Do you have any pets: No. n never in future too…
26. Do you want to change your name: No way
27. What did you do for your last birthday: I cried… Why I canttell u
28.What time did you wake up today: 5:15 am.
29. What were you doing at midnight last night: Sleeping ….heheheh
30. Name something you CANNOT wait for: to reduce more weight…L.
31. Last time you saw your father:2 hours back
32. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life: I wud like to delete some chapters of my life which gave me lot of pain n happiness
33. Most visited web page: donno donno… ok to be honest….http://pallav-destiny.blogspot.com/
WHAT'S YOUR:
34. Name: Pallav Pathak
35. Nicknames: see there r many… so here I go…. Hai rabba merko badi sharam aa rhi hai yeh sab likhtey… par to ab sunno…Twinkle…..Tinku…Elle…Appu…Tunkul(Another form of pronouncing Twinkle)….Rondu…..Nonu……Motu….Palli…
36. Zodiac sign: Saggitarius… I knw they r best…hehehhe
37. Male or female or transgender: Male…
38. Elementary: Dhera Dun Public School
39. School: Dhera Dun Public School
40. Colleges: Post graduation – GSBA, Greater Noida
41.Hair color: Dark brown
42. Long or short: Short
43. Height: 5 feet 8 and a half inches.
44. Do you have a crush on someone? Infinite…..hehehhe
45. Ever been in love? Not completely.
46. Piercings? on both the ears
47. Tattoos? No no no… n never I heard it is really painful….
48. Righty or lefty: If it is Piercing then in both ears….
49. First surgery: I had 2 both in same leg…
50. First piercing: Ears
51. First best friend: no one… Best friends never suits me…they react …hehehhe
52. First sport you loved: Bad Minton
53. First pet: Haven’t had any so far
54. First vacation: Nanital…55.
First concert: Jal Band
56. First crush: My English Teacher … Manisha….
RIGHT NOW:
57. Eating: nothing…
58. Drinking: Nothing
59. I'm about to: go n see my Sadu Boss…
60. Listening to: My Colleagues conersation….grrr….
61. Waiting for: this tag to be complete
YOUR FUTURE
62. Want kids? Yes
63. Want to get married? Sure sure... but not before 30
64. Careers in mind?
Advertising, Journalism, Event Management, Compering/RJ…. And Brand Manager…..
WHICH IS BETTER WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX?
65. Lips or eyes: Eyes
66. Hugs or kisses: Hugs
67. Shorter or taller: Taller
68. Older or Younger: Older
69. Romantic or spontaneous: Romantic
70. Nice stomach or nice arms: Nice Stomach
71. Sensitive or loud: Sensitive
72. Hook-up or relationship: Relationship
73. Trouble maker or hesitant: Trouble maker
HAVE YOU EVER :
74. Kissed a stranger: No….. I don’t want any slap…hehhehe
75. Lost glasses/contacts: many time
76. Broken someone's heart: yes…but not intentionally
77. Had your own heart broken: Yes
78. Been arrested: Never
79. Turned someone down: Yup…but it is required..!
80. Cried when someone died: Yup…
81. Liked a friend that is a girl? Yes…but can’t help
DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
81. Yourself: Sometime
82. Miracles: Yes…83.
God: True Believer.
84. Love at first sight: I agree..I agree……
85. Heaven: Yeah
86. Santa Claus: Donno…..
87. Kiss on the first date? Nah baba…
88. Angels: Yes
89. Devils: I m the best…..hehehhe…
ANSWER TRUTHFULLY:
90. Is there one person you want to be with right now? Yes
91. Had more than one boyfriend/girlfriend at one time? Areyyy…. Ek bhi nahi hai….Poor guy….
92. Wanted to kill someone ever? Yeah… but then I think… no….there is no need..!
93. Among you blog mates, whom would you like to kiss? Please…. No one……
94. Committed a blunder and regretted later? Yes n regretting till now..
95. Wanted to steal your friend's boyfriend / girlfriend? Not at all nobody is my type…..hehheheh,,,,
ASSOCIATE WITH SOMETHING YOU WEAR:
96. White: Louis Philips Shirt
97. Black: Coat and Kurta.
98. Red: Casual Shirt….99.
Blue:Ties..Shirts…Pant…Jeans…Kuta…Socks…hehehhe
100. Posting this as 100 Truths? By God bada hi Mushkil hai….

Would like to Thank Isha...for tagging me.....
Would like to tag many people but i think they all have already tagged, so i m leaving them.....
So here i tag Harshita....Creativity.....Kartzz.....Sneha :)

For God Sake ...Please Stop

2009-04-01T09:36:00.003+05:30

Today I would like to ask you one question..

Does god also need advertisement… Branding…in short all marketing things…
I don’t think so then why we all do so.. .. I received a message stating
“This message is directly coming from Shirdi Sai Baba Mandir. Pass on to 10 people something good will happen with you, doesn’t break the chain otherwise u will be in trouble."
Another one… Mata Ke navratrey me yeh shubh sandesh hai jo maa ke darbarse aaya hai, isey aagey 11 logo ko bhejo, kuch acha hoga 24 ghantey ke andar….

Now can anybody tell me why we all send these messages..it’s not that you are dedicated toward god, it is superstition…God never want any marketing or advertisement.
I m very religious as well as spiritual but that does not mean that I should start doing all this.
If you don’t take god name can god harm, you…. No….it’s wrong..does our parents can see us in pain, they can give us pain…. No ……

I keep almost every fast but that does not mean I should start distributing these kinds of messages and mails.
This is not limited up to messages….emails, letters n I don’t know what all they are doing…
I request you to stop all this.. just throw away your superstition…
I wonder after sometime somebody will not attack on blog with this and we all keep on sending blogs to each other with these notes….
Happy Navratrey… I would like to request again…that we should not indulge ourselves in all these things…

On ending note I would like to tell you one other thing about my boss….as I m on fast he asked me why are wearing this ‘Tikka’… I said becase I m on fast
He said: you should not wear this, remove it.
I just smiled ( Excuse me!! I don’t care ).

P.S: Sorry due to exam I was not that much active, I have missed some of my friends blogs…

Bol na Halkey Halkey - Exams

2009-03-19T16:06:00.006+05:30

So now a days I m quite busy wid my exams, I m not studying because Home to office n office to home, don’t let me study.
I m giving my M.com(Marketing) exams which my boss don’t want…who caressss..
Wen I spoke to him regarding leaves

He said: Don’t forget Pallav you cant take leave till you don’t complete your 1.5 year wid us. ( Jaisey ki main 1.5 year yaha par rehne wala hoon)
Acoocrding to him I m wasting my time by doing such, he forced me to quit Mcom exams and also blasted on me yesterday wen I told him I will leave early due to my exam -

He said: How dare you? I told you na, it is wastage of time, leave it right now, need not give any paper, cant you understand what I mean here….

I said: No, I will not, because this is a last year and I would be stupid, if I will quit…
And finaly he blasted for 40 mins, after all barking and gulping a bottle of water, he gave up…
and I walked out and went for exam.

Exam was fine, though I m illetrate in Computers but still manages to answer 5 question with one extra sheet, I think that’s enough to atleast get passing number…. Kaun sa muje Gold medalist banana hai…. Hehehehahaha

It is one the most weird place I have ever seen for exams, there was no fan, tubelight etc in room. Weird student those who know how to speak rubbish, weird faces with weird dressing sense… now have u ever seen any guy wearing lower along with rubber sleepers with sunglasses in examination room of college……..
Whattt … noooo… but yes….. I have, because they all are dressed like this.

Girls wearing Jeans and ‘Chamki’ tops wid suit wala duppatta…and some are in sarees look like coming from some Village beauty sallon,for attending some marriage, In short total Makeup ki Dukkan........ awwwwwwwwhhhhh…

God help me…...

Toilets probably our railways station toilets are more neat and clean from that institute toilet. All walls are beautifully texted(Please ignore grammar mistake), u cant see paint because there are myriads of compliments written by boys in their world class Indian language- I think, I need not to tell… girls please ignore this… ha ha ha…

I don’t understand what all girls write in paper, you can finish that paper in one sheet itself but yes one another sheet is more than sufficient, but girls are girls, one Bhenji( I m forced to call bhenji, Mayawati) took five extra sheet and I donno what all she was writing.

Finally finished my paper within 1.5 hours and left the room, but cant go home because my friend was wid me, I forgot tell him that I will leave as soon as I finish my paper, I thought he will mind and will look for me....so i have to wait for him

Peter asked me does your boss know about your blog ,so peter it’s for you…

Bol na halkey halkey.. honth se halkey halkey…. Bol na halkey…

I love this song I think Mr Gulzar deserve another Oscar for this song…
Why I m writing this because eventually I m listening to it on FM

No Peter he don’t know that is why I can vent out whatever I wish….otherwise he will say why are you wasting your time on this…..haheeehahee..

P.S: I m not against for Womens and Men so please donot complain about me in any Women and Men Cell, if somebody know the number of Employee complaint Cell, do tell me... :)

With due respect and regards to all

Pallav

Sleepwell - Not Slept Not Well

2009-03-13T09:21:00.003+05:30

It always happens wid me, when I look upt o something , I dono why it happens……….

On Saturday I got a call from Sheela Foams Pvt limited, Arey!! that Sleepwell Mattress. They want me to join their company. I told them N number of times that I cannot join until you will not raise your salary but they keep on calling. Now you tell me how I can join any company who are paying me less than my present salary. Though I would like to, I mean if they sweeten my package little bit, I will join them. The profile they are offering is really good and nonetheless it is well known brand and this all can give me immense peace when I will leave my present company and show them what a Guy I m ……

I cannot forget the day when I went for interview December 6, 2008. I was first candidate and negotiated badly on salary. At that time itself I was enough confident about my selection. But before that day I had a very bad day in my office, and wanna leave this company ASAP…..(as soon as possible). I cannot slept whole night before the interview.
Let me tell you as I handle all creative work..so there was a brochure which we need to design for a product called PipeWrap BT, now you can guess, this is product which protect the pipe from corrosion so off course for creative we have to show the Pipe. I have done that with my agency and we came up with a beautiful brochure showing the application and uses through images..

My Boss (A)
A: Pallav why you have use pipe images for this product.
Me: Sir because this protects Pipe from corrosion so it is apparent we have to show pipe.
A: No, you would have shown Water, lakes and river.
Me: but Sir…. this does not have any relevance
A: Shut up this is the problem you never listen to me.
Me : ok Sir.

A: i have 20 years of experience , I know better than you...
A: What happened to the Backdrop? ( This is an exhibition kit)
Me: Sir we need canal photo, the photo which you have approve does not go with that , it has very poor image quality so we have to use some other.
A: why not you go and click it, its only 45 km away from your home.
Ha ha ha …. He is a mad fellow….

I m not photographer who will go and click
Idiot….
That’s all guys…I will write his other stupid things in my next blog….

Cost Cuttiing....!!!

2009-03-02T14:30:00.008+05:30

Who says Recession has not affected India that much…..

Height of Cost Cutting………..after Laying off certain employees from our company, now our management has decided to reduce the Telephone Reimbursement of employees. It is not limited up to mobile, they have also decided to transfer all the phones onto Intercom only, it means you cannot dial even any local number.

The cost cutting doesn’t end here, they have reduced the Dearness Allowances as well as Day meal Allowances, Now we will not get any tissues papers, no Toiletries, I was shocked to know that we will not get soap for hand wash, No pens, no stationery and those who are entitle to get Car Allowances now they will travel by Auto.

Our Hr has advised us to sit in one common room so that it can help them to cut the electricity bills. Now this is height I cannot sit with all sales guys who always keep on shouting over phone and they disturb me. I cannot generate any creative ideas, forget about writing because every time if I think, they asked me countless questions regarding my quietness. if I speak to media they think I am calling from market, I m not suppose to meet more than 2 poeple in one day.

Now we only get two time tea please note minus biscuits.
The Bisleri bottles are replaced by AquaGaurd water filled bottles.
Memo has been issued for no loan Approval and other approvals.
We don’t get papers for printouts, they have fixed weekly budget for printouts, rest of the things we have to manage by our own way.
No Photocopies and limited Courier.

This indicates me that Dude, this is a high time to look for a new job but here also this recession is not leaving me because I am not getting any job…..

Bhagwan please kuch help karo yarrr… yeh recession jara kam karooo

Hai Rabba yeh Professionalism!!!!!!!!

2009-02-17T11:26:00.000+05:30

Professionalism….I have asked somebody what is the definition of Professionalism … as there is lot of hype about- Be Professional, that guy is very professional and all……… what he told me is what which i cannot accept

So I have searched the definition from net.
See what I get.

" The standards, views, and behavior of one who engages in an activity, especially sports or the arts, to make his livelihood. Cf. Amateurism. — Professional, n. adj."

After reading this I thought … "Yar yeh woh definition to nahi hai, jo main janta hoo, ya fir jo muje log batate hai…"

I tell you when you become indiscipline, you are harsh and rude, you show your attitude, please note Negative attitude…. And most important, you have to be disrespectful, doesn’t matter whether he/she is your elder and and and and also you need not to stick to your words, if you promise something …Pleaseeeee never fulfill it…That is Professionalism.

I have seen when people does like this they are so called True Professional. People have changed the whole definition of professionalism.

An event management company called me up and presented me their proposal, I told them it’s okay probably we can work for our next event but not for the present one.

Next day, their boss came to see me and you won’t believe…… he said why not you cancel your contract with your present company, I am sure we can do something for you Mr Pathak, just think….. So what if they are planning for your event from last 3 months, I can assure we can do all this for you within 10days….

I said… No I will not … okkk tell me suppose if same thing I do with you then!!!!!

He said common man-- Be Professional!!! Mr. Pathak, everything is fair in business.

I simply said probably for you….. It is professionalism, not for me….

I think now this is tendency of general people ---- Tag your Misbehavior with so called Professionalism.

Astonishing thing even parents also tag their children misbehavior with Professionalism,

I wonder after sometime, if god also becomes Professional…. to Mera kya hogaaaa bhai??

2009-02-16T11:33:00.000+05:30

When you start running from things I have seen…. That’s sure you gonna face it at any cost….

Bhagwan mere saath hi kyu???? I donno….

I always try to shun certain situations and things but I have to face them… whenever I try to come out from my past, and promise with own self not to think about this matter again …… I always think...

Sometimes circumstances force me, which never left me with any option…. And rest leave…
I had a very good friend... A friend who probably best in every sense from my point of view … I can’t say about him…..

The terrible thing is now we are no more friends… Why…. Believe me I even donno. I have shared everything wid him I think nothing has been left to tell him . We were friends from last 8 years, we have been together for every joy and sorrows, even our families were too involved in our friendship.

He got married day before yesterday…. Our every common friend was asking … why you were not in Sagan (Other Ceremonies) and all. I simply told them we are no more friends..... but they donot believe.

The worst part is he invited my cousin.... and my family also asked me the same question….. which I hate. I went to my Saloon and guesss what?? There too I have to face same question and I told them "Aisey hiiii tabiyat theek nahi thiii…" ( I was not feeling well… thats why)

Pata nahi Bhagwaan kab muje chain se jeene degaa…… Givemee a break

I cannot share the same relation wid him infact any relation wid him... and I still prayed and wished happy married life for him. Though I hate myself why I chose him as my friend. The only thing, I can tell you is he had given me myriads of pain and I have been living in guilty from last 1.5 year because I think I have ruined somebody (A girl) life…. And she denied…..

Nonetheless life is like that…. I will write the full story of my friendship some other time. That is why I say you never know… life is unpredictable.. Everything, every relation is unpredictable.. ……

Love... can make and break

2009-02-10T11:16:00.000+05:30

Life cannot be easy for anyone" Aur agar uspe use pyar ho jaye to samjhooo gya kaam se woh"
Love is really very painful & beautiful, it can make and break your life. I have seen the beauty and ugliness of love.
Thank God I m saved….. I am and was not in love ever
I have to look after the Advertisement and all creative work of my company, so obviously I have to work with my Creative Agency too.. there I met a lady - beautiful, intelligent, humble, smart etc etc etc.
The best part is she is the only one who runs the agency. Very hardworking and ambitious….
She has started her career as a Trainee in Ad Agency and see now she is owner of her own agency. She was in love with a guy when she was 17 year old and that fellow was 15. They both use to spend their time together and al l (you know guys…). When she was 28 they decided to settle down because I think that was a right time for any girl and boy to settle themselves but god has thought something else for them. This guy who was not so good in studies at all has cleared CS, ICWA and CA within 3 years; I think that was her love which worked as motivational factor for this guy.
Nevertheless prior to one month of their wedding, she came to know her would be is suffering from Leukemia( Blood Cancer ) and all of sudden next day he went in to comma, it was really painful for her to see him with all this but she stand boldly and started living at his place and taking care of him. But it is always said" Jo bhagwan ko manjoor ho, aakhir hota to wohi hai", after 3 months he died.
She went in to depression because it was big shock for her and got paralyzed with this trauma. How painful it would for her I can easily see from my eyes because she was crying when she was narrating all this.
Everything was shattered now she can only move her left side, her parents were depressed to see their daughter..
One day her Employer, Where she use to work Mr. Das came to see her and asked her to join office despite of her paralysis, he forced her to come, she started going office and use to do nothing sits for whole day and comeback but her ambition and her creativity helped her to cure. With the supervision of doctors and physiotherapy she was recovering and after 2 years she was completely fine.
Now the only thing she wants is work; but Again god has stored something else for her, She met with another guy who use to see her from past one year and known about her. They decided to settle down but her father was deadly against because he was nothing in front of her and their family.
She came to Delhi and married him in a Arya Samaj Mandir. They both have purchased a house in Noida started their new life. It was again very painful for her to accommodate in small flat and mange their house with limited income but she did it.
After five years of marriage and all ups and down they were unable to have baby due to some medical problem with her husband. They decided to adopt baby, she left her job and brought baby. God has not left her here also the baby was suffering from severe Pneumonia, doctor told them she will not survive, she is very weak, they suggested them to return this girl to orphanage and ask them for another healthy baby but they denied. They want the same.. they spend their whole money on this girl and finally after 2 month of all treatment and praying, God was kind enough and baby survived but she was still under observation. After 15 days they were allowed to take baby to their home.
As time was passing they were facing many difficulties because at that time it was her husband who was only earning, she decided to back on work and called her Mother in law. They decide to set up a small unit and she started working along with one of her old friend. And I think now God was with her, whatever he had taken from her, God had started returning to her and slowly and gradually her business was growing. Now her daughter is doing very well, she looks after her Grand mother and father. .
The lady is now owner of an Ad agency and has a separate printing press, she is planning to adopt another baby. However she still has pain for her first love, she starts her day by seeing his photo. She thinks her husband loves her more but if he is alive she would be something else, she cannot forget her first love.
I think one cannot forget his /her first love; this is again game of fate. That’s why I think whatever happens it is written by god, we cannot change anything from our destiny; the only thing which we can do is to improve our ‘Karma’ only that will help us. Instead of thinking and wishing bad for someone we should think and wish good, need not to be jealous, everybody is getting whatever god has thought for them. Again you never know what is next stored for you.

Right Time

2009-02-05T16:26:00.000+05:30

To start with blogging I think this will be a perfect topic to write. Let me tell you something which probably people don’t know about me. I have been an average student till 10th and then slowly and gradually I have started picking up in my studies. Passed +2 and took admission in Delhi University for graduation though I always aspire to be in Advertisement field but at that time there was no course available for under graduation, Unfortunately I have seen an ad in newspaper of Rai foundation for Graduation in Mass Communication: aur kehte hai “Andhey ko aur kya chaiyey, 2 Aankhen” And I went there, got convinced, took admission and started attending classes meanwhile I have transferred my regular graduation course into correspondence. After few months I came to know I am in mess, the college was not affiliated and it has no value.
I decided to quit mid away because I don’t wanna waste my parent’s money and I have started working with BPO but I cannot forget my dream to be in advertisement field. After working for almost 3 years, I have seen every ups and down. I have joined as CCE then Trainer and resigned as an HR. Then took admission in MBA because my father wants me to do MBA( which I don’t) and my mother wants me to see college life.
Anyways I have started attending classes and then done really well in very first semester topped the college, was very good in every activity won many prizes and all. People use to jealous, criticize and crib a lot. All use to say this guy gonna rock the college and definitely fly with good package for placement , even I too know from inner self that yes I am the best but I was always down to earth.
Given my first interview in Berger Paints and cracked the GD, PI, PI with GM, and then PI with VP and finally got the offer letter but before that just for the introduction there was another round of PI with President. Everything was going smooth but the other guy got it and I didn’t.
Anyways like this same happens with me in IIHT and Reliance Communication. I think something was wrong at that time with me. I have lost my all confidence and thought I won’t be getting any job but I have never shown anybody. Everybody started criticizing and use to back bitch a lot.
Then finally I got placement in XYZ Company with a very low package where I look after the Brand Management and Corporate Communication. Here I am involved with advertisement.
If you see this entire one can easily find out everything happens on its right time, we have to wait for that time only, if something is meant for you, sure you will get, just wait for the right time.
To conclude it, I mean its all matter of luck and you never know what is next stored for you. When I was running for Advertisement, I got nothing, I think god has stored something for everyone and yes you have to wait for the right time. So what if I am getting less, I know something better is stored for me and I am too waiting for my right time.
One should not lose hope and faith from god and from own self.
Do and give your best!!!!!
All the Besttttt