Apr 20, 2009

Marriage...is a Carriage....



Marriage this word brings smiles and fear on everyone face, Smile because they will have partner now for their life, Fear - how can a guy n gal manage their life, it’s difficult for both of them, but I think Girls confronts more trouble. She has to leave her family and entrust with someone else who is completely unknown to her. Adjust and cooperate with new folks, treat them as an own family, its difficult.


Anyways I m not gonna write about all this.


My friend Aman, 27 year old, he is engineer and MBA, working with a multinational company, nowadays he is facing similar problem, he is been working since 1 year and his father is after his life for marriage. He doesn’t want to settle as he wanna constitute himself at a estimable position before marriage. According to him every girl has many expectations and wishes, and he want to live up to all and to meet all that, which needs money.  He says he cannot meet his own expenses with his salary, how can he afford his wife necessities and blah blah blah….


Now the problem is his father is getting desperate, as he thinks it is a right age after that he will find problem in finding right girl for his son, moreover his all friends children are either married or getting married and everybody ask him for his son marriage, which annoys him, he thinks people will intend there would be some wrong with his son, that is why he is not getting married ( I tell you he thinks people will assume his son is Gay hehehhe…. )


Whenever there is any wedding invitation from their Friends and relatives, he panics a lot, they have ‘Sayyapa’ at their home. He says all his friends children are getting married….woh sab first aa gye ek hum hi hai jo fisaadi reh gye….hehehhe….


 Height of desperation is when he was having his meal his father asked him to be on diet as he is putting on weight and he don’t want any girl rejects him. He advises him to have Sugarcane Vinegar which will help him to reduce his fat and weight..hhehhe…..


He had enroilled Aman into a gym and forces him daily to go and built some muscles … I mean body shody…..


Poor chap…. I have explained him many time.. Uncle..Don’t worry give him a year’s time he will be ready but….His father he says beta... This is right age otherwise we have very limited choice and you know…. Chere pe bhi umar dikhti hai…….. Kaun Uncle se Shaadi karega…hehehhe…. And there are lot of biological issues….


Now wherever he goes he ask people to suggest a bride for his son…..


I understand his father concern too..he is right at his part but you know Aman is too right..I mean he is not ready for marriage, atleast his father should give him sometime….


On ending note would like to inform you my exams are finished..my Sadu boss is getting more sadu day by day….he wants me to now be in office till 8:30pm with no work because I left office early seven days due to exams, so he wants compensation for that…



 

50 comments:

yamini meduri said...

haha....this is the situation with almost everyone who crossed their 20's.for girls it starts at 20...but yeah, these days parents are also thinking about the girl's future...!!!

and All the best to Aman....hope he gets his time before getting married....!!!he will get his Best Girl..!!!

so, wat r u gonna do till 8:30 with out work dear??? willl u not get bored???

yamini meduri said...

yippie..i am the first..!!!

and the second too..!!!

Pallav said...

Yamini...
Thanks a ton...yipeee i m third.....
hehehhe.....
Aman.. i told him day before yestrday...tera toh band bajega jaldi....hehehhe...

yai i dont know wht i ll do..but one thing sure i goona read all blogs...hehehhe...
n vaisey bhi I ll play tricks to rid off with all ths.....

please wish me a luck so tht i can i hv new job...

thanks for the lovely comment...

Cheers :)
Pallav

Harshita said...

saala sadu boss...

Yaar.. yeh toh meri bhi problem hain koi solution batao... shaadi shaadi..offo!

Main ghar se bhaag jaaon??

Priya Joyce said...

hmmmm...children are worried about a good career..parents are worried about marriage(the so called ultimate settlement)

uske papa se kaho..the gal who'll love him won't see his age..and the gal who sees his age will in no case be a good match for him...

arre there is a tym for everything and it happens only then..and agar shaadi nahi bhi ki toh kya probs hei??


oh! i forgot..the vansh business is also there..all want their grandsons to be there as a pillar to their family...

world is hell..and society which we liv in is bigger hell

*SADLY*
:(

Mayz said...

hehehehe...poor fren of urs...my sympathies wid him...

n hope ur exams went off well...n well bosses will b bosses...nothin much v can do abt them

bondgal_rulz said...

Arre kya yaar!! Apne boss ka naam aur address do, abhi uske naam ki supari deti hoon. :D

And, marriage is such an over-rated institution I tell you.

Sneha said...

iss post ka marey pass koi jawab nahi hai haan .:)

Pallav said...

Harshita...
Mera man karta hia ki usko utha ke 5 th floor se fek doo...but possible nahi hai bada hi bhari bharkam lamba chauda hai....

My sympathies are always with u, u know naa.....
thanks a ton...

Pallav said...

Priya...
i agree Priya but if u see from difficrent aspect i dont think tht his father is completely wrong, he has his own worries which somehow i think r acceptable.
but yes ths the truth which we have to face....

anyways.thanks a ton ...ree....
hehehhe...i love ur style 'reeeee'
:)
hope u wont mind...

cheers
Pallav

Pallav said...

Mayank...
Yar...but why they are like tht only, cant they behave like human....

anyways..forget..but tht is sure wen i gonna boss..i wont do all ths...
Thanks a ton... for ur lovely comment..
n haan sir u shld also be ready for ths..probabaly u also gonna face....hehehhe...no no no no.. i m not cursing u...hehehe

Hv fun n Cheers :)
Pallav

Pallav said...

bondgal_rulz...
Likho address....
23,Sanjay Nagar,Ghaziabad.

Name R Sharma...
hehhehe....

thanks a ton... for ur concern..u r only my true frnd who thinks for me....
hehehhe.......
may god bless uu...
ya i too think sometime...then sometime... i say .......chaddo yar muje sharam aa rhi hai...



hv fun n cheers
Pallav :)

Pallav said...

Sneha...
fir bhi thanks a bunch atleast u hv read....

:)
Pallav

Priya Joyce said...

arre nahi re :P

peter said...

Marriage ..this word freaks me out :-ss
btw i a have at least 6-7 years for me so YAY !!
Poor frnd f urs and poor You, coz u have naukri(boss) issues and he has Chokri issues :D

Kartz said...

Heh heh heh, Poor Aman. My wishes! ;)

Yeh boss ka jhanjhat zindagi bhar hoga! Switch to entrepreneurship, bro'... Problem solved. ;)

Tc.

Peace.

Pallav said...

Peter...
Thanks a ton for dropping by..
wht a conection haan..
naukri n chokri..
they both r problematic.....

anyways...
thanks..
se ya

Cheers :)
Pallav

Pallav said...

Kartz ...
thanks...
Dude... r u going to finace me for that....
hehehhe...
jst kidding..
thankuuuuu

cheers :)
Pallav

Little Girl Lost said...

LOL! LOL! LOL!
i cant believe guys have to go through this too. i just though its us girls who face this irritating music :)

Pallav said...

Little Girl Lost...
Thanks thanks thanks...
yes u knw guys also hv to face all this...

thanks for dropping by....

:) cheers
Pallav

Cursed♪♫ said...

Hi!
I'm back :)
I hate marriages !!!!!!

Kunjal said...

yes it is difficult all of a sudden to get hooked up with this marriage thing but surely one has to:)

Rajesh said...

The moment you get a decent job, the search starts. You are bound to agree at some point.

Pallav said...

Cursed♪♫ ...
Thanks for dropping by...
u hv ample time...for marriage...
perhaps by tht time u ll start loving it....

hehehhe...

Cheers :
Pallav

Pallav said...

Kunjal...
though its difficult.. n i agree one has to face similar situation bcz it is another truth of life...

Thanks for dropping by...
Pallav

Pallav said...

Rajesh...
yes i agree.. n i think for every almost perspective...

anyways thanks for dropping by... n for ur lovely comment..
wud like to see u i future too...


Pallav:)

Mahesh Sindbandge said...

Not a wonder man..this is what worries all the guys/gals who attained an age of marriage...

i don't know about girls but guys suffer like anything...

When guys themselves don't have enough maturity to handle themselves, how do parents expect to marry so soon? and what they say you know? "after marriage you will learn =everything ".
Why dont they understand that age is not a bar these days....for they are parents after all, they just wanna see their children to get married and have children..:P

Pallav said...

I buy ur point Mahesh...
i donno why dont they understnad this..
but sometime i think they r quite right at thier part..
they r more concerned.. n they wanna assure tht they complete they all responsibility.. due to the fear of any mishappening....
as at ths age u nvr know wht can happen in future..
but yes they need to understand tht now guys hv so many aspirations...

Arnab Majumdar said...

The decision of marriage and all should ultimately be left to the person who wants to take that decision, not anyone else. I mean, if the guy think he's not ready, why force him into something that he doesn't want to go into in the first place?

Cheers man... and I hope things turn out fine for your friend...

Diya said...

Hey, I wont at all sympathize with his dad yaar... they don't understand us in the hurry to get over with their duties, ye sab nahi chalnewala, bas!
And what if after marriage he is not able to take care of all her needs, then, who`ll see?
Tell him to take care of his career firstly, secondly fulfill all his wishes as a bachelor, then take up the trap! lol... he he, bohot gyan de diya :P

Neways, thanks for visiting my blog and commenting :)

Diya said...

And I am following your Blog :)

Pallav said...

Diya ...
Thanks a ton...
1.for the wonderful comment
2. For following my blog
3. for visiting n spending ur precious time in reading...

Yes, i agree but the problem is i think frm every aspect, why i am calling ths thing problem is bcz sometime people take me forgranted n sometime i myself get confused wht to do next..

hehehehhe...
the gyan whch u hv gvn , i m gonna share wid him...
ciyaaaaa

thanks a bunch...

cheers n hv fun
Pallav :)

Pallav said...

Arnab...
ya..tht is wht i always say.. n hv tried to expain his father many time but u knw.. we cannot argue wid the elders at certain point, it doenot look good...
there r odr alternatives to tackle ths prblm..which i keep on telling him day by day..

Dude ..hwzz ur exams r going on..
hope u r doing well in ur exams...

good to see uu..
All the best
n cheers :)
Pallav

Cursed♪♫ said...

Nah. I wont. I prefer live ins !
And about studying...I can't help it. Have to study! I've got my 10th!

Pallav said...

@Cursed Live in, not bad sweetyy....
ohhh OMG u hv 10 exams...
study. study,tudy n study..
i n u really cant help......

hehehhe....

All the best..... :)
Pallav

Dhanya said...

Even girls face the same problem yaar. It's horrible state to be in.

Suyog said...

hi pallav

though his DAD is making haste for the shaadi business and all but he is also ryt at is point and AMIt is also very correct ...the only solution is he shud make a quick buck obviously by HOOK :)

Pallav said...

Dhanya
hmmm...
ths is really horiible yar..
but we cant help..

anyways
thanks a ton...

Pallav said...

Suyog

thanx a ton... for dropping by...
ya.. i too agree on his note yar..
but yes he has to pull up his scoks n need earn handsome bucks


thankuuuuu

cheers :)
Pallav

Cursed♪♫ said...

Hey! Check out my blog. Got something for you!

Little Girl Lost said...

long time no post?

Pallav said...

yar dis sadu boss u knw, he is after my lyf....


Pallav

The Pink Orchid said...

poor friend of yours and he has a point.. dono dad-son koi negotiation nahi kar sakte.. he needs now and son needs a year.. six months mein baat final karo..lol.. sowwie for my insane comment.. but I am sure jo hoga theek hoga!!

and may god give strength to carry on with your job issues.. it shall be fine too.. :D

Pallav said...

Pink Orchid..first of all thanks a ton...
for dropping by..
ok deal final i m gonna do tht..
n thanks for ur good wishes...
i reaallly need....

:)
Pallav

Cursed♪♫ said...

Lol!
You're crazy :)

Pallav said...

thank u... so much..
anyways... i know...
hehehehe...

Arnab Majumdar said...

Sorry for such a late reply, exams finished today... and now I'm feeling tired as hell! I hope that problem sorted itself out by now... although we can do nothing but hope...

How the exams went... well, no comments on that. The only good thing about them was the fact that they ended today. Thanks for all the wishes, I hope they'll carry me through :) Cheers man...

Pallav said...

Cheers Arnab...
good to know....

:)
waiting for ur blog....

pinkZz said...

this is funny as well as truth....
gr8 ..

Pallav said...

pinkZz
Thank u so much...
thanks a ton...

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