Oct 23, 2009
Life is full of surprises. To whom you trust, he/she will never be your trustworthy. To whom you call your friend, you never knw…. that they are your enemy.
I was so astonished yesterday to know, about something which had shocked me. There is a girl in my office who use to call me her best friend. Waisey… I have never segregated my friends with words like best, good, fast, etc. But she use to……and I had cleared this thing many time..but after sometime I have started ignoring this…because it was clear from my end…..anyways…she was in love with guy and her parents were not happy with her choice…so off course…she use to hide things from her parents and all.
She use to ask me what should I do, I have explained her many times that it is better you should either convince your parents for him or leave him.
But she never agreed on that….I use to help her by completing her work so that she can go see her boyfriend, things kept moving like this for an year….one day she came to me and told me she had decided they are getting married, again I have tried to explain but she dint agreed…. Anyways.. I have helped her to get married with him without knowing her family…but I dint attended her wedding. Infact I have arranged everything at temple and in office too….
After doing all this I have never expected anything but yes I expect that there should respect she should have for me.
But no it was not like that..she had some problem with other girl in the office..and whatever she use to tell me about her…she said everything to her by taking my name…..n naturally..we all know girls are best players in manipulating the facts and words…
The best part is the other girl called me up and she had said everything to me in front of her..n obviously I denied ….Jab mainey kuch bola hi nahi toh… how can I accept all that….
After all this scene the Girl who use to call me friend, wrote an email to other girl and said, yes I did it. I do bitching and I will do and I am not afraid of anybody in this world.
Jo karna hai karlo…
I am not getting why she had done all this… aur kya mila use yeh sab karke….i m so disturbed from yesterday… I think we should not trust anybody in this world.
Kaisey kaisey log hai yaha…
Oct 12, 2009
But yes the most important thing is I hv seen the most difficult time of my life….
Don’t know what else is left to see….. I am extremely sorry for my non availability on blogger……
I respect and wanna say thanks to Priya, Sam, Harshita and Nidhi.
Aug 14, 2009
Aug 4, 2009
Jul 26, 2009
n yes...it is obvious..I missed u a lllllllloooooot.....donno aap logo ne kiya ki nahi...but yes...I missed u guys.....
Jun 20, 2009
Jun 17, 2009
Life is a process. We are a process. The universe is a process. You know moving on in your life is important. In my past few years I think I hv seen every face of life. How difficult for anyone to come out from all that I think I better know this. People have used me like anything and then after usage they have kicked me like a football. Yes it’s true... I have been victimized and traumatized by many… many of my so called good friends.
Though I think Why? Why this happened to me but as always I don’t have answer. But I think god has given me enough strength to face all that and then move on…. Nicely. Although it was tough but yes...not difficult. Every incidence has taught me something n I think I m more mature patient, practical et al.
There is one guy in my office that belongs to an uneducated family. They have some different culture, he was bit rude towards his family because of all that and I tried to explain him. I told him it is not possible whatever you wish you will get, there are some wishes which cannot be fulfilled and we have to accept that. You cannot change your parents at this age. You cannot choose your family; I think it is better rather than analyzing, cribbing and plagiarizing we should respect them for the things which they have done for us.
After one month he came to me and told me that his family is happy, they are observing some changes and he told me that is all possible because of you. I was happy that I have done at least something for him.
Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child and the smiling faces. Smell the rain and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential and fight for your dreams
Today I feel I m living my life, if I m doing something for somebody…
Ending this post with positive note and would like to tell you that I have resigned from my present job n will be joining some other organization. Though it was a difficult decision but I took it….. I think it was god who had helped me to decide and he had given me several indications and I just followed because when all doors were locked and I was in middle of way, he helped me and showed me the way..So I would like to thank god by this post.
Jun 10, 2009
So I m starting my post with sad note..God ne aaj kal meri watt laga rakhi hai yaaron…..a week before last week my mom fell n her right shoulder is fractured….she is diabetic so she will take more time to recover around 2 months…..my Badi mom I mean my Tayji came to see her n be with us so that she can facilitate n serve her…but unfortunately she got septic in her right hand so she also got operated the next day…so aaj kal.. I m looking after two patient..if somebody comes to see them we usually crack joke tht we have combo offer..ek patient ke sath dusra free free free…..jaldi kijiyey offer period is limited….hehehhe
Anyways... I took a week off from my office and was with them so that they don’t face any problem...Thanks to my Mama n Mami who were looking them... n I dnt have words to express my gratitude towards them..Still they manage to send one time meal for us……
So nowadays I m living pure grahesth jeevan….subah subah uthke ke paani bharoo..fir…Breakfast ki tyari karo …fir afternoon ke liye sabzi banoa..Dusting karke… sara ghar.. u knw manage karke… I leave for office n after office ghar pohuchke u knw… raat ke dinner ki tyari ..Then paying bills for all like cable…sweeper….Maid…..Newspaper……n all.
N yes I hv to keep an eye on everything…… kya khatam ho gya hai..kya leke aanna hai market se lana hai…..ufffff…its too hard… Bhagwan ji kam se kam ek break to banta hai ji…..
Bhagwan ka kehar……Maid is on leaves from last 3 days…..n I m searching n calling all aunties to send their maids at our house from my office……..
Upar se yeh sadu boss … I feel like I should throw him from fifth floor... u know he is cutting my salary for the leaves because as per him I can’t take off until n unless I will not complete 1 year n 9month with this company… I hv completed one year… n how terrible it was..Only god knows n I know…..
PS: I have missed so many post of my friends, would like to apologise for the same....hope you can understand, I dont get time... :(
PS: I have missed so many post of my friends, would like to apologise for the same....hope you can understand, I dont get time... :(
Jun 5, 2009
Hello to all n sorry to all…heheheh...why because I was away n I hv missed ur post…hope u all r fine n doing well…..
Ok now you won’t believe after reading this post. One of my friend getting married there is nothing strange about it except this that he is not employed and he told his family that he is employed and he is living his life from our money from last 7 months…nonetheless the worst part is he is getting married … I mean how can he… he is not employed….
Anyways…. the most astonishing thing which he told me is that in his village which is near to Patna, they don’t have Electricity...From past 40years.. Earlier they have but it use to come for only 3 hrs in whole 24 hrs...Then slowly slowly people started thieving the Electricity wires and the poles because of poorness and now they don’t even have any wires or poles for electricity..
I was wondering how they people are living without electricity…..we are so much dependent on that...we are helpless without it…….
So guys I m back…. will be reading ur all post….meanwhile I must inform you that I hv received two awards from Mads...so thanks a ton Mad..
May 20, 2009
It seems…all of sudden Bhagwan mujse kuch khush ho gye hai….. u knw I m getting awards…
I m fortunate enough to have friends like you…. Infact I would like to thank everybody who spent their precious time on my blogs….
I love you all.....
May 13, 2009
Love is not permanent, it is a irregular craziness. It blossom like an flower and then sinks. And when it subsides you have to decide, what to do
You have to check and assure whether your roots have become so laced together or not and that it is unimaginable and put of question that you should ever part.
Because this is what love is.
Love is not shortness of breath, it is not turmoil and upheaval, it is not the annunciation and declaration of promises and anticipation of everlasting warmth and affection. It is a commitment between two souls.
I think… I m .. I m… yes I m…..
you are guessing right… yes I am in……. I am …
Not in love…….
This is specially dedicated for all my friends who are in love. You know it is really....
a beautiful feeling.. n I m dying to fall in love….. hope it will happen soon….
May 8, 2009
I don’t find any answer whenever I think of this.
Yesterday, I got a call from my past chapter.…one of my so called Good Friend, friend 12 year old, has actually back stabbed me. Because his purpose was solved and kicked me out...
Yes, this was a shock for me as I never thought of ths..but I think this is all life. His sister called me up for her own purpose and asked me for help. I was thinking after 2 year she called me for this, did she think once before calling me, she took my number by calling my college professor and then contacted me.
As a stupid moron I helped her…. People are calling me idiot for this.
Yes, I m an idiot, if I think abt others, if I m emotional…. Yes I m idiot..I cannot be rude n selfish….I don’t want to become like them…I m feeling sad...It always happens with me whenever I try to forget everything.. I always face that thing again n again… u knw it sucks.. it gives me pain… I too have heart…n I m feeling lonely....
May 5, 2009
This post is going to be hat trick for me, bcz ths is also going to be on wedding.
Ok so I start from here, our one of the good friend was getting married, it becomes mandatory for us to attend, notwithstanding anything. We five common friends went Kanpur to attend his marriage. It was not basically proper Kanpur, I don’t remember the name of the Village, which comes under tht district.
We all attained on the wedding-day, n decided to take two rooms in a hotel. There were no hotels in tht particular area, so forget tht u ll get some good hotel. We took room in one hotel named TOP HILL…nw I asked my friend, there is no hill in ths area, then why they have kept ths name.. I dint get…
He said: tujey ball ki khaal naikalne me zada maja aata hai…
I said: ok… I wish ths hotel shld be appropriate for us.
We walked towards reception and asked the Reception Guy (RG) “ We need two rooms”
RG : we have ample of rooms, why two… take five…
I said: ohh..so u mean u have 2… ke sath… 3 free waali scheme… n we all laughed...
RG: no..it is not like that, but we have very economical rooms…
I said: ok you give 3
RG: evinced and inquire abt the purpose of visit n all…after completing all formalities, he asked us… Sir We have Gubbarey facility too, if u don’t have we can give you….
I said: R u Nut or what?..itni dur se kya hum gubaarey fullane aaye hai…. (Actually he was talking about C****M, I dint knew)
RG: arey Sir.. fullane ko kaun keh raha hai… after tht my other friend started smiling n he said no.. no..Dont worry buddy we have….
RG: Sir…we have facility of Thanda Paani also…. with smile… n charges r very nominal… (he mean Call Girl)
I said: r u crazy…in this winter, where people r dying with cold, u wana gives us thanda paani….
My friend: ok kitna ?....
RG: Sir 150 – 700 tak….
I said: Kya tum usme Juice bhar ke dogey… jo itna charge kar rhe…
MY friend to me..Shut up Man… Acha to kitne baje bhijwa dogey..
I said: r u mad… thanda paani… I m not going to take bath with that….. n I think none of us will take bath..ur mom will kill me, if u have asthma attack, she told me to keep an eye on u….so u Shut up.. n just take bath with warm water… r u listening me….
All of them were smiling n said ok boss……
My friend: Acha to ek bhijwa dena…
RG: arey ek se hi kaam chal jayega… acha acha.. baari baari … haan.. but sir uske extra charges lagenge..
RG: Sir Gubarrey aur thanda paani sab kuch… aapko…. Ek daam…500 me mil jayega badiya se garm pani….
I said… listen… we r not here to blow ur gubbareys…..n to have bath with ur cold water… n jst.. Hush up.. n show me the way for the rooms…then we all walked out from reception n entered in our room…I was observing, while waliking he was speaking to my friend ..they were smiling n signaling each other….
My other friend came after an hour and told me tht Vivek, my frined, is planning abt some thanda paani with tht guy.. n was abt to pay but he stopped him…he also told me tht RG comes after every 30min and ask for thanda paani…
So I was totally unknown with the scene… n I screamed n abused him n asked him to get ready bcz now we have to leave for the wedding venue….
Now Wedding venue was weirder… there r people who r serving BIDI’s and Cigarettes in tray…people r sitting on grounds instead of chairs… Children r playing with the tent……people r shouting for BARF (Ice cream..ths is wht they call it)…..Ladies were in there ghongat till their toes…..most of the men’s were in White Kurta and payjama…with Rubber sleepers… n the Village Guys… I mean the dudes… were in Suits with Sporst shoes……
I cud not control myself and was jst laughing like mad’s n my friends were controlling me… due to fear of….any troube….. all people there were gazing us …..
They explained me all that crap wen we all were returning to delhi.. that wht RG meant..I was laughing…..
I got an award from Juhi….I would like to specially thank her for the same…
Thank u all for reading my blogs… n motivating me to write more n more…
Special thanks for Harshita….Arnab…Kartzz….Creativity….Isha……Juhi….Yamini….Mahesh, dude I cannot forget u….Mayank, u always rock……Sneha……n all th readers who r reading… please don’t mind if I forgot to mention anybody name… just remember u all have special place in my heart….
Apr 29, 2009
Have you ever attended any Punjabi wedding???
Nopes…then you should, we all bunch of friends went to attend our friend sister marriage. It is actually one of my Friends- Girlfriend Sister and he had forced me to come, though I don’t want, but I have to accompany him.
So our train was late, we forget to carry Card for address; his GF was not answering his calls . Anyhow I called m y mother n asked the address and finally we reached.
Scene 1 : Her sister who was getting married has received us and took us in one the room where all ladies were in their Demake up stage ( I mean half nude…n they are coming in their original devil looks by removing their all make up), they have attended some other ceremony at Grooms Place.
Scene 2: Her Mom asked Beta Khana Chalega ( arey aunty duaedga…. Bhaiya subah se bhookey hai ).
My friend replied, no aunty we would like to have only water, khana humne khaa liya…
I agitated n said Aunty we won’t mind, with killer look on my face I just banged his leg. At last we had food n all other Aunties ….I don’t know why they all are staring us with their weird looks. Anyways I ignored n had food n we all went for market to buy gift for bride.
Scene 3: All of them were getting ready and my friend GF, she came n took us in to another room n asked us abt everything n then all aunties abruptly came, n started asking me lot of questions abt my family n studies.. Started introducing their daughters and granddaughters, who are almost of our age. We just formally met n left the room, now they have told their daughters to follow us and be with us.. first I thought it was a general way of facilitating somebody, but later I realized they have some other plans. As they were telling their daughters, how to dress, how to flaunt ur body and how to impress the guys……
Eh delhi de mudey ne.. enhnooo sab kuch karke vikhaoo…
I was only speaking in English with my friend bcz of them and one of the aunty said…
Aee ki ghit pit English bol de paye ho puttar ji…thodi hindi aur punjabi bhi bola karo…saadi Kannu MA in hindi hai … te bhajan bade soney gaandi hai … suna kaanu… oh Shyma ji walla….
I said no no … aunty I know how to speak hindi ..woh hume aadat padi hui hai….
Another Aunty: Beta yeh diamond ke topas pehne hai aapne…..I said yes aunty this is Diamond Studs…
She said: oh hoo.... ek ho hi gal hai beta… humne apni Meenu ke liye Diamond ke Set bavayey hai.. ab shaadi ki umar ho gyi hai naa…
Vekho aapke sath match karti hai na….
I said what??? I just ran.
Scene 4: Barat was abt to come n here my friend and his Girl Friend, they were smooching and I was shouting-ki koi dekh lega yarr… juteey padegeyy… but they….. no comments….. After all ceremony, we all wanna change our clothes, there was nobody at home, suddenly my friend GF came n took my friend to upstairs…her cousin who was looking for her came asked me abt their whereabt I said I simply signaled and she smiled….
Her Brother came to us ( I must tell you, he has his milk dairy and sweet shop.. pura ka pura Pehlwaan type....now u can understand why I was so scared ) , inquired abt our friend, how he is n all....
We just smiled... answered his questions….
At the time of Doli... i mean Bidaai... everybody was crying, here my friend and his GF…..
People were looking for them..As it was a last ceremony n it is important for her to be there.. I think i need not to tell you where she was ...
we all were rushing to catch our train bcz i just wanna ran awy from tht place, train departure time was 3:50 am n our Friend he was missing.. We decided to board without him bcz he was quite happy n wants to come next day....
Finally he came n we all gazed him.. he said: what…Man…. I forgot the way for station....that is why i am late....dont think anything else.... haaan
PS: Somebody would like to suggest any other title for the post… ??.