Hai Rabba yeh Professionalism!!!!!!!!

Professionalism….I have asked somebody what is the definition of Professionalism … as there is lot of hype about- Be Professional, that guy is very professional and all……… what he told me is what which i cannot accept

So I have searched the definition from net.
See what I get.

" The standards, views, and behavior of one who engages in an activity, especially sports or the arts, to make his livelihood. Cf. Amateurism. — Professional, n. adj."

After reading this I thought … "Yar yeh woh definition to nahi hai, jo main janta hoo, ya fir jo muje log batate hai…"

I tell you when you become indiscipline, you are harsh and rude, you show your attitude, please note Negative attitude…. And most important, you have to be disrespectful, doesn’t matter whether he/she is your elder and and and and also you need not to stick to your words, if you promise something …Pleaseeeee never fulfill it…That is Professionalism.

I have seen when people does like this they are so called True Professional. People have changed the whole definition of professionalism.

An event management company called me up and presented me their proposal, I told them it’s okay probably we can work for our next event but not for the present one.

Next day, their boss came to see me and you won’t believe…… he said why not you cancel your contract with your present company, I am sure we can do something for you Mr Pathak, just think….. So what if they are planning for your event from last 3 months, I can assure we can do all this for you within 10days….

I said… No I will not … okkk tell me suppose if same thing I do with you then!!!!!

He said common man-- Be Professional!!! Mr. Pathak, everything is fair in business.

I simply said probably for you….. It is professionalism, not for me….

I think now this is tendency of general people ---- Tag your Misbehavior with so called Professionalism.

Astonishing thing even parents also tag their children misbehavior with Professionalism,

I wonder after sometime, if god also becomes Professional…. to Mera kya hogaaaa bhai??

When you start running from things I have seen…. That’s sure you gonna face it at any cost….

Bhagwan mere saath hi kyu???? I donno….

I always try to shun certain situations and things but I have to face them… whenever I try to come out from my past, and promise with own self not to think about this matter again …… I always think...

Sometimes circumstances force me, which never left me with any option…. And rest leave…
I had a very good friend... A friend who probably best in every sense from my point of view … I can’t say about him…..


The terrible thing is now we are no more friends… Why…. Believe me I even donno. I have shared everything wid him I think nothing has been left to tell him . We were friends from last 8 years, we have been together for every joy and sorrows, even our families were too involved in our friendship.


He got married day before yesterday…. Our every common friend was asking … why you were not in Sagan (Other Ceremonies) and all. I simply told them we are no more friends..... but they donot believe.


The worst part is he invited my cousin.... and my family also asked me the same question….. which I hate. I went to my Saloon and guesss what?? There too I have to face same question and I told them "Aisey hiiii tabiyat theek nahi thiii…" ( I was not feeling well… thats why)

Pata nahi Bhagwaan kab muje chain se jeene degaa…… Givemee a break

I cannot share the same relation wid him infact any relation wid him... and I still prayed and wished happy married life for him. Though I hate myself why I chose him as my friend. The only thing, I can tell you is he had given me myriads of pain and I have been living in guilty from last 1.5 year because I think I have ruined somebody (A girl) life…. And she denied…..

Nonetheless life is like that…. I will write the full story of my friendship some other time. That is why I say you never know… life is unpredictable.. Everything, every relation is unpredictable.. ……

Love... can make and break

Life cannot be easy for anyone" Aur agar uspe use pyar ho jaye to samjhooo gya kaam se woh"
Love is really very painful & beautiful, it can make and break your life. I have seen the beauty and ugliness of love.
Thank God I m saved….. I am and was not in love ever
I have to look after the Advertisement and all creative work of my company, so obviously I have to work with my Creative Agency too.. there I met a lady - beautiful, intelligent, humble, smart etc etc etc.
The best part is she is the only one who runs the agency. Very hardworking and ambitious….
She has started her career as a Trainee in Ad Agency and see now she is owner of her own agency. She was in love with a guy when she was 17 year old and that fellow was 15. They both use to spend their time together and al l (you know guys…). When she was 28 they decided to settle down because I think that was a right time for any girl and boy to settle themselves but god has thought something else for them. This guy who was not so good in studies at all has cleared CS, ICWA and CA within 3 years; I think that was her love which worked as motivational factor for this guy.
Nevertheless prior to one month of their wedding, she came to know her would be is suffering from Leukemia( Blood Cancer ) and all of sudden next day he went in to comma, it was really painful for her to see him with all this but she stand boldly and started living at his place and taking care of him. But it is always said" Jo bhagwan ko manjoor ho, aakhir hota to wohi hai", after 3 months he died.
She went in to depression because it was big shock for her and got paralyzed with this trauma. How painful it would for her I can easily see from my eyes because she was crying when she was narrating all this.
Everything was shattered now she can only move her left side, her parents were depressed to see their daughter..
One day her Employer, Where she use to work Mr. Das came to see her and asked her to join office despite of her paralysis, he forced her to come, she started going office and use to do nothing sits for whole day and comeback but her ambition and her creativity helped her to cure. With the supervision of doctors and physiotherapy she was recovering and after 2 years she was completely fine.
Now the only thing she wants is work; but Again god has stored something else for her, She met with another guy who use to see her from past one year and known about her. They decided to settle down but her father was deadly against because he was nothing in front of her and their family.
She came to Delhi and married him in a Arya Samaj Mandir. They both have purchased a house in Noida started their new life. It was again very painful for her to accommodate in small flat and mange their house with limited income but she did it.
After five years of marriage and all ups and down they were unable to have baby due to some medical problem with her husband. They decided to adopt baby, she left her job and brought baby. God has not left her here also the baby was suffering from severe Pneumonia, doctor told them she will not survive, she is very weak, they suggested them to return this girl to orphanage and ask them for another healthy baby but they denied. They want the same.. they spend their whole money on this girl and finally after 2 month of all treatment and praying, God was kind enough and baby survived but she was still under observation. After 15 days they were allowed to take baby to their home.
As time was passing they were facing many difficulties because at that time it was her husband who was only earning, she decided to back on work and called her Mother in law. They decide to set up a small unit and she started working along with one of her old friend. And I think now God was with her, whatever he had taken from her, God had started returning to her and slowly and gradually her business was growing. Now her daughter is doing very well, she looks after her Grand mother and father. .
The lady is now owner of an Ad agency and has a separate printing press, she is planning to adopt another baby. However she still has pain for her first love, she starts her day by seeing his photo. She thinks her husband loves her more but if he is alive she would be something else, she cannot forget her first love.
I think one cannot forget his /her first love; this is again game of fate. That’s why I think whatever happens it is written by god, we cannot change anything from our destiny; the only thing which we can do is to improve our ‘Karma’ only that will help us. Instead of thinking and wishing bad for someone we should think and wish good, need not to be jealous, everybody is getting whatever god has thought for them. Again you never know what is next stored for you.

Right Time

To start with blogging I think this will be a perfect topic to write. Let me tell you something which probably people don’t know about me. I have been an average student till 10th and then slowly and gradually I have started picking up in my studies. Passed +2 and took admission in Delhi University for graduation though I always aspire to be in Advertisement field but at that time there was no course available for under graduation, Unfortunately I have seen an ad in newspaper of Rai foundation for Graduation in Mass Communication: aur kehte hai “Andhey ko aur kya chaiyey, 2 Aankhen” And I went there, got convinced, took admission and started attending classes meanwhile I have transferred my regular graduation course into correspondence. After few months I came to know I am in mess, the college was not affiliated and it has no value.
I decided to quit mid away because I don’t wanna waste my parent’s money and I have started working with BPO but I cannot forget my dream to be in advertisement field. After working for almost 3 years, I have seen every ups and down. I have joined as CCE then Trainer and resigned as an HR. Then took admission in MBA because my father wants me to do MBA( which I don’t) and my mother wants me to see college life.
Anyways I have started attending classes and then done really well in very first semester topped the college, was very good in every activity won many prizes and all. People use to jealous, criticize and crib a lot. All use to say this guy gonna rock the college and definitely fly with good package for placement , even I too know from inner self that yes I am the best but I was always down to earth.
Given my first interview in Berger Paints and cracked the GD, PI, PI with GM, and then PI with VP and finally got the offer letter but before that just for the introduction there was another round of PI with President. Everything was going smooth but the other guy got it and I didn’t.
Anyways like this same happens with me in IIHT and Reliance Communication. I think something was wrong at that time with me. I have lost my all confidence and thought I won’t be getting any job but I have never shown anybody. Everybody started criticizing and use to back bitch a lot.
Then finally I got placement in XYZ Company with a very low package where I look after the Brand Management and Corporate Communication. Here I am involved with advertisement.
If you see this entire one can easily find out everything happens on its right time, we have to wait for that time only, if something is meant for you, sure you will get, just wait for the right time.
To conclude it, I mean its all matter of luck and you never know what is next stored for you. When I was running for Advertisement, I got nothing, I think god has stored something for everyone and yes you have to wait for the right time. So what if I am getting less, I know something better is stored for me and I am too waiting for my right time.
One should not lose hope and faith from god and from own self.
Do and give your best!!!!!
All the Besttttt