May 8, 2009

Is everyone around us SELFISH??

I don’t find any answer whenever I think of this.


Yesterday, I got a call from my past chapter.…one of my so called Good Friend, friend 12 year old, has actually back stabbed me. Because his purpose was solved and kicked me out...

Yes, this was a shock for me as I never thought of ths..but I think this is all life. His sister called me up for her own purpose and asked me for help. I was thinking after 2 year she called me for this, did she think once before calling me, she took my number by calling my college professor and then contacted me.


As a stupid moron I helped her…. People are calling me idiot for this.


Yes, I m an idiot, if I think abt others, if I m emotional…. Yes I m idiot..I cannot be rude n selfish….I don’t want to become like them…I m feeling sad...It always happens with me whenever I try to forget everything.. I always face that thing again n again… u knw it sucks.. it gives me pain… I too have heart…n I m feeling lonely....

45 comments:

Sneha said...

Chal marey 2 gifts to fix hain.;)

fir sey pehli baa comment kiya hehe.

Marey saath bhi esa hee hota hai hamesha log emotionally blackmail karkey kaam karwa latey hai they call me emotional fool and i call myself emotional Full.:)

janey dey bura tou legta hai pe peta hai HUM JASEY ACHCHEY LOG HEE DUNIYAH KO BALANCE KARTEY HAI.;)

kOI MAUKA NA CHODO APNI TARIF KARNEY KA.

So stay happy and Smile.:)

Take care
Sneha

Arnab Majumdar said...

Hey man, it's ok... don't beat yourself too much about this. Stuff like this happens, you gotta take it in your stride man...

Chill for now dude, and learn from your mistakes... don't let anyone take you for granted from now on.

Hope things turn out well for you man, cheers...

Creativity!! said...

Hmmm.......People r selfish, jealous of some1's achievement.....but we should be bold & strong enough 2face any sort of situation.....do u remember, Don't Care Policy...Once I had told in my blog, in older posts about this...so do adopt this policy then nothing harm u:)

Life is full of challenges.....Life takes exam and then teaches...whereas teacher teaches & then takes exam.....U should become lie a stone...even I was also soft, but, can't mumbai life is somewhat quite different form my blore life..Blore ppl r soft natured.....If u r soft, ppl will directly digest u without chewing..so its better, adopt DONT CARE POLICY:) beginning u may feel difficult, but gradually u can make it :) Be Bold, Brave, strong enough to face any sort of situation :) these are all a size of mustard seed test which God gives to every1...I am not making u sentimental..but saying what I feel/think:)

Wish You All The Very Best Success for ur Professional as well as Personal Field......TakeCare...Have a Lovely Fantastic Day Ahead:) Prove what u r and how much u r efficient in every field to ppl, especially ur Boss :) Hows ur Boss doing??

Well, gtg..Catch u anytym Later:)

Best Wishes,
Creativity:)

Priya Joyce said...

It happens re...many tymes..people use us and never turn bakk....I've got many such ppl around me...(friends) huh!

i don't think i hav a sol for it :(

peter said...

Welcome to Life :D

яノςんム said...

awww.. but ti wud say its okay if u helped ur frnz sis. cuz she wasnt the one who backstabbed..

and about ur frnd, cest la vie..

Little Girl Lost said...

its ok dude... people are like that... don't let it get to you...

Sam said...

hey dude, fuck those people and move on. no use burning hair and boiling blood on those who dont have decency to acknowledge!!!

enchantinganki said...

u might be lonely..but atleast u did wat ur heart says..its ok :-)

SMILE...

Phoenix said...

you know u did the right thing... they could stoop so low as to use u.. but u proved to them that you are far above the rest...

and im proud that u didnt behave like them and refused help or u wud have been like them...

cheer up

*hugs*

Cursed♪♫ said...

In this world of fucking mean people, it's hard to find people with a heart. It's nice to know that you have a heart. SOmebody is emotional! Don't worry. You're not lonely.
Thanks for your comment!
**Feel Good HuZz Jus 4 U**
Now Smile !!!!!!!!!!!

Harshita said...

I think the comment box is working fine now... ;)

Kartz said...

Dude, selfishness is the order of the day, sadly. Hypocrisy isn't alien to human kind.

If you ask me, ll tell you to be proud that you helped her. It is not often these days that you find someone helping despite having ended up back-stabbed on an earlier occasion.

And please do not regret your action, buddy. For the purpose, is lost. And life has a lot more for u to cherish rather than letting them go unseen by regretting ur actions.

Jo hua, so hua. I am sure all of us here are happy to hear that u *helped*. That matters.

Let those back-stabbers know that you have a heart of gold.

Peace. Be well.

Mahesh Sindbandge said...

Hmmmm pallav ko kisi ne hurt kar diya...

who is that bitch..?

Dude...have you heard that quote..?

dont set those ppl as priorities, to whom you are just an option..

Dekh yaar..mushkil hai yeh janna..par namumkin nahi..

Hame pata chal jata hai ki hum kis ke liye options hai, aur kiske liye priority...

Its just that hum yeh yakeen nahi karna chahte aur hamare dil mein yeh aas rehti hai ki woh kabhi na kabhi hame chahega, kabhi to hamari dosti ko samjhega....

hardly very few out of 100 turn their cards for the sake of you and rest show thier asses as usual..

Give time...it will be fine...

As for as being emotional is concerned ..cool ma..u r like me...

its always good sometimes...u do understand ppl very really sometimes....

Take care..:)

Mayz said...

i agree wid raka...u did d rite thing...this way they wud feel bad for stabbin ya n wud realize wat a good person they have lost...proud of ya dude

Pallav said...

Sneha
ths time i m in no mood to gv any award...
but yes thanks a ton..
for lovely comment...

Pallav said...

Arnab
its not tht i never see whr i was wreong...u knw..the problme is i try....
i try to be away all ths..bcz..

znyways..
thanks for the comment.

Pallav said...

creativity
its not tht ii dnt foillow such things..but the prblm is the cirmcumstances..they nvr let me to forgot..all ths..
yes ur DCP policy is helping me for my proffessional front
thanks a ton...

Pallav said...

Priya..
just one thing
thanks

Pallav said...

Peter
yes i jnw..i hv been wecolmed before few years

Pallav said...

RICHA
its not he backstabbed me..infact his whole family was involved..
they dint even bothered for whole 2 years....tht why he stopped coming n all.....

she use to tie rakhi to me.. n she forgot evrythng....

Pallav said...

LGL
hi.. n thanks.. ya i will..

Pallav said...

Sam
Thanks... i ll make sure..

Pallav said...

Echantinganki
thank...u so much

Pallav said...

Raka
thanks for ur warm words...
thank u so much.....
but sometime..i feel why.. why it happens..

Pallav said...

Juhi
thanks, good to knw tht u hv such a clear thoughts....

Pallav said...

harshita
u knw na.. i m idiot....
i dint find tht n i changed
sorryyyy....

pls sorryyy

Pallav said...

Kartz
thank u..but i must tell u in ths world nobody bothers tht somebody think abt them or not..
the only thing matter is they just wanna solve thuier own purpose..
i dnt regret tht i hv helped her....
but yes they all are selfish..

Pallav said...

Mahesh
thanks for warm word....

Pallav said...

Mayank
thank u so much

Pallav said...

Dear all

if u feel tht my replies r smwht rude
please excuse n forgive me.. i m not in position to say anythng...

hoipe u will understnd

Harshita said...

@Pallav
We love you sweets... its okay :)

Kartz said...

I'd be lying if I say I don't agree with you, bro'. Ipso facto, I can relate to what you just said.

C'est la vie.

Peace.

Gauri Mathur said...

Hey Pallav!
:)
Dont be sad, What you all did was your strength.
World is like this, very selfish and very insensitive.
But what you should cherish about is that, People like you, people like us by being selfless, helping and loving them after all their selfishness proves, that we hold the power of changing the world and making it more peaceful and beautiful by spreading our love.
And I dont know U like this philosphy of mine or not but I go by this, ' Forgive and Forget'. It makes my life easier:)So From now dont be sad for anything:)
God Bless you!
Take care
:)

Nidzzi said...

u reminded me of my dear fren Aks. he too is a very helpful loving guy but he has no one close to him.
he helps others and others take advantage and dump him.
stop being too good if u dnt want ppl to hurt u .

Suyog said...

this is the way the other think and u mst think ur own way ......any ways just forget the past and live for the minute , if you wanna stay happy just get ur both feet in it :)

SYG

anupama said...

be agood samaritan always!goodness exists in this world!do a good thing and forget about it!we should not expect anything in return.
hope you are out of it!
whatever we can, to bring a change in the world of selfishness,we must do.
smile and cause a smile.
sasneham,
anu

Pallav said...

Gauri
ur philosphy..i must tell u.. i do follow but u knw..it become tough for us...
anyways thanks for the warm words...

Pallav

Pallav said...

Nidzzi
i always try to be like tht.....but..i cant help.. i cannot be like them.
i dont knw i always think ths time i gonna do like ths....
but somehow my inner soul nvr allows me to do

thanks a ton.. for dropping by...
n wud like to see u in future too..

Pallav

Pallav said...

SYG
ya.. i m learning... n u knw i try to lie every minute..but sometime 9i fail..i think ths is all life...

thanks for lovely comment
Pallav

Pallav said...

Anupama
i dont knw whether i m good or not...but yes ths is true..i cannot think of harming somebody..
i wish good for others..
u knw i too follow tht we shld not expect smthng in return..but being an human sometime.. i fail.
its not only matter of expectation..its just tht u hv immense faith on somebody..n they ll just kick u within a minute..before thinking...

thanks for dropping by..
wud like to see uu in future too...

Pallav

Pallav said...
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Devilish Angel said...

I know :( Everybody is selfish. We can't trust none other than a few cherished friends we have. I already realized that in life

Pallav said...

Devilish Angel
thanks a ton for ur lovely comment..
the problem is i m .. i m in no condition to say anythng for ths..
thanks for dropping by...
wud like to visit in future..

Pallav

Pretty Me!! said...

not ALL ppl r selfish .. but you even not need to be helpful to all !!! it dsnt help u neway !!

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